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Boyfriend never done anything for me
From: BD1A00089E4A902DF519C746BD8B1EE7
Date: Wed, 17 Aug 2011 08:53:06 +0200
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H everyone. I am 4 weeks pregnant with a boyfriend who has never done anything for me. I have always been the one who buys him things and he always complains of not having enough money to take me out or buy me anything. Ever since i discovered i was pregnant i have been stressed and having insomnia. He wants to marry me but i am so scared he will not be able to provide for me. He always visits me at my place and i have to cook the food i buy he never buys anything and is very wasteful.When i tell him about it he says i am too demanding and bother too much. I am confused as to wether i should marry him or not.
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Re: Boyfriend never done anything for me (Reply to: 163920 from BD1A00089E4A902DF519C746BD8B1EE7 )
From: A15602ABC8455870829E9F59D02AEED9
Date: Wed, 17 Aug 2011 23:23:02 +0200
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If you are doubting there must be a reason, otherwise you wouldn't even ask yourself the question...anyways, if he does not have money to take you out, he definitely does not have the money to marry you.
And, as an additional argument, you aren't even married and he already complains you are too demanding?? That's a little excessive, what would he do then when he'll be married to this (so he said) too demanding woman? Uh?
If yourfaith strictly tell you should be married, then I guess that being pregnant you have no option, but if your faith does not...I'd think over it, just the fact you have a doubt means there's a reason to doubt.
Could you just get it done with "we don't need papers to state we love each others" and not marry him? That's keep you free in case your suspects are actually true.

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